In a world where I feel that I am being exposed to more and more cynicism, criticism and general negativism, I've been thinking a lot lately about how I fall into the trap of being a cynic, a complainer and a major participator in negative conversations. Though I am a fan of sarcasm, as I age, I am learning when I cross the line of being sarcastic to down right rudeness with people. It's a character flaw that I am working on.
There are so many things to be grateful for in this life, despite hardships that get tossed people's directions. Just busing into work this morning, I was thinking..."It is so beautiful outside, with the crisp autumn-like weather." I feel very fortunate to live in a beautiful city, surrounded by water, greenery and many urban options at our fingertips. Beep and I have a very full life, surrounded by wonderful family, amazing friendships, talents we love cultivating and jobs that provide challenges and rewards to creativity simultaneously. I feel my faith helps me put things into a larger picture perspective as well.
So, in my pursuit of trying to change my attitude and be one who looks at things from an optimistic standpoint, versus a pessimistic standpoint, I hope we can all be aware of the cynical and critical conversations we engage in and do our part to be more positive and promote productive conversations with people in whatever capacity we find ourselves in.
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
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It is amazing when you have time to reflect on your blessings how all things move into greater perspective. I can't help but be thankful for my life especially with you in it and hopefully that motivates me to be a better person. We can work on this together!
I'm happy to help in the "being positive" conversations. I've found that I can easily fall into the trap of cynicism as well and it's not always a great place to be.
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